"Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart...

and try to love the questions themselves. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is to live everything. Live the questions.” ~ Rainer Maria Rilke

About Somatic Therapy

Rubenfeld Synergy is a discovery-based body/mind/spirit method rooted in gentleness, receptivity, openness, understanding, and non-judgment. This body-centered journey helps people accept themselves wherever they are; with this self-acceptance in place, people can then shift those things that need to shift to move toward greater wholeness. » more

A Session with Patricia

With a humble approach to the depth of you and your experience, Patricia offers kindness and expansive acceptance to assist you on your journey toward wholeness. She guides you in listening to the wisdom of your body and your life, unraveling tangles of confusion and doubt. This clear understanding that each and every experience in your life has happened with good reason will help bring light to the undiscovered gems hidden in life’s challenges. » more

About Patricia

Patience. Kindness. Lightness of being. Depth. These are the gifts Patricia brings to the body/mind/spirit work called Rubenfeld Synergy. She is honored to share her humble offerings with you on a journey of discovery, trusting your wise body as guide. After years of searching, Patricia has finally made peace with the game of life and found her beautiful place in it. She can help you do the same.
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From the Blog

Three Tips to Move Toward Empowered Sensitivity

Posted by on Jan 16, 2017 in Sensitivity | 0 comments

Three Tips to Move Toward Empowered Sensitivity

By now, almost everyone has heard the term “Highly Sensitive Person”. I have to admit, I bristle when I hear that term. Everything I read about HSPs seems to focus on how it is that we can adapt ourselves to the ‘normal’ world. I’m sure I’ve missed a lot there, but part of our sensitivity is learning about our true yes’s and no’s ~ and for me, 98% of the stuff I read on HSP is a ‘no’. What seems clear to me is that the world has not yet embraced the gifts that sensitive people can bring to the party. Remarkably though, many of the insights sensitive people glean from our...

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Soft IS Strong…

Posted by on Jun 30, 2015 in Gentleness | 4 comments

Soft IS Strong…

“There’s nothing more important on our spiritual path than developing gentleness to oneself.”   -Pema Chodron I once had a few dates with a woman who was trying to understand the work I do. “So what does it actually do in the end?” she asked. “I guess I teach people to be gentle with themselves” is what I came up with. She had a very hard time understanding this. She didn’t exactly see the value in this. She reported that she was gentle with herself and would not need help to get there. The truth was that she was so NOT gentle with herself. I knew this from many clues. One...

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